“Love is not blind, it sees but doesn’t mind.”
The book of 1 Corinthians in the bible says that love is kind, patient, never jealous, boastful, proud or rude. Love isn’t selfish or quick tempered. That passage in the bible is a very exceptional meaning of love. It really explained utterly what the true meaning of love is. We all know that love is the greatest gift of all. We love ourselves, we love our family, friends and even our special someone. Speaking of special someone, in our generation, many youths were in a relationship and “illegal” commitment because their parents forbid them to commit in a relationship at an early age which is definitely right. I divulge that I have been in a relationship before. I experienced on having a commitment with a guy whom I admire. I split up with them because I’m not still prepared on having a commitment and involved myself in a minor relationship. I realized that it is very hard to study and to love someone all at once in our age. I’m still young to be in a relationship and since weeks from now, I will be in college, I will be in a bigger community and I will meet more people and encounter guys that are better than my past. So, now, I prioritize my career and studies because I know that it would really do affect my future life and of course, I do believe that true love waits.
I won’t repudiate the fact that Helen of Troy is an excellent movie and it does really inspire me. There are breath taking scenes and scenes that made me cry because of the miserable experiences of the protagonists in the movie. I want to revenge to the people of Sparta, I want them to undergo the sufferings that the Trojans felt. I also want to kill Achilles because he is so showy and boastful and Agamemnon to give justice on what he did to Iphigenia, on what he said to his wife, Clytemnestra and especially to Helen. He also doesn’t give respect to women, especially to his wife. I also escalate Pollux because he became a good brother to Helen no matter what happens. Moving on; I’m also fanatically obsessed with the love story of Helen and Paris (before, I thought that the beloved one of Helen was Troy). Their cheesy lines really make me feel that I’m tickled by hundreds of people. I’m in love-struck by their love story. Even Helen has a curse, Paris still accept her. Paris is in royalty, brave and handsome, so why girls can’t resist on having him? Paris also loved Helen until death and even his life would be in danger. That’s the ideal man that I really wanted to have; a man who would truly love me for better or for worse and accept me for what I am and for who I am.
If I were Helen, I would not go with Paris to Troy. I would stay in Sparta together with my family and Menelaus until everything is doing fine. I would not go with him to Troy because I know the consequences if I do. But, it doesn’t mean that I don’t love him anymore. I know what is best for him and his family. I just want him to be safe and sound. I believe that my love would protect him whatever may happens. I would still pursue on loving him. I would not love anyone so that I could show my loyalty to him since he’s the only one, whom I really loved. No matter what happens, there is no guy who could change the way I feel for Paris. There is no guy that could replace Paris in my heart. I would pursue on loving him despite of everything. Even our tribes, our kingdom and our family are in rival, I would still love him. Even the most handsome guy would love me and proposed me anything and everything, I would not give up my love for Paris. My love for him would be consistent until my last breath. Even my life would be in danger; I will not surrender my love for him. If we were really meant to be, the gods and goddesses would let it be. I would not stop on waiting for the right time that Paris and I would be together forever.
If you love someone, you would really fight for him/her. There are many love stories that even their parents are against to them, they would continuously love each other. Even their situation is you and me against the world, they would still fight on the love that they have. You can’t stop on loving someone unless you really don’t love that person. There is no deepest ocean to swim or even highest mountain to climb; there is no hindrance for a person that deeply loves. Even time can measure how much you love that person. So, you must a lot much time before you decide if he/she is the person who is destined for you. One of the most painful things that a woman can feel is when they thought that the person whom they loved so much will be the prince charming that will bring them to their happy ending love story. And remember, don’t find love, let love find you. You will not find the person if you insist for the wrong one. Love never fails.
